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Relationships in a pair are responsible for ...
Relationship in a pair is a responsibility!
Do you agree?
Observing myself and my students, I more and more come to the conclusion that pleasant,Green and happy relationships are possiblewhen one of the couple takes responsibility for the spiritual comfort of his partner. And if they do it both, then such a pair becomes very harmonious.
What is peace of mind?
I understand this as an opportunity to feel needed, loved and free person. Do not rush to throw slippers! Freedom in this context does not mean that your partner may disappear at night where it is not known, and it is not known with whom. Freedom in such a pair is due to the fact that everyone has the right to his opinion, his interests, his personal space, etc.
We won’t get into someone else’s head, which means we will not be able to understand how, for example, it is easier and easier for a person to relax or, on the contrary, to bring himself into a fighting spirit.Perhaps it will be a cup of coffee and cake or a computer game. Again, we do not take into account alcohol, drugs and tobacco - these things are obviously not "environmentally friendly" for relationships. And at that moment, when we see a partner who is buried in a regular training session or game, or a book, we show respect for his choice and offer the opportunity to do what he wants. This is freedom.
Suppose that a partner got into something and a mess in the house, the refrigerator is empty, and I really want to throw up a scandal ...
Just ask yourself a question:“What will I get if I now naur a partner?”
Oh, yes, the dishes will be cleaned, the refrigerator will be filled with food, but in the relationship there will still be a ma-aa-a-a-little crack, which will eventually grow and eventually lead to rupture.
Responsibility for the spiritual comfort of a partner is not an easy thing,need to stop in time, thinkHow to convey your experiencesabout the lack of food and order, to enter into negotiations, not fighting, to hear the point of view of another and accept it, to find a compromise.
He passes this level in the game, and you recover to the store, she finishes reading the chapter, and you clean the kitchen.
If your partner is dear to you, each time you open your mouth, ask yourself:
“Am I killing our relationships now or growing them?”
When the second answer will be more, you will be very pleasantly surprised by the changes that will certainly occur and faster than you think.
Be captivated by your life every day!